The Pale Blue Dot – That’s Us
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The words of Carl Segan.. oh, how they move me.

“From this distant vantage point, the Earth might not seem of any particular interest. But for us, it’s different. Consider again that dot. That’s here. That’s home. That’s us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every “superstar,” every “supreme leader,” every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there – on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam.

The Earth is a very small stage in a vast cosmic arena. Think of the rivers of blood spilled by all those generals and emperors so that in glory and triumph they could become the momentary masters of a fraction of a dot. Think of the endless cruelties visited by the inhabitants of one corner of this pixel on the scarcely distinguishable inhabitants of some other corner. How frequent their misunderstandings, how eager they are to kill one another, how fervent their hatreds. Our posturings, our imagined self-importance, the delusion that we have some privileged position in the universe, are challenged by this point of pale light. Our planet is a lonely speck in the great enveloping cosmic dark. In our obscurity – in all this vastness – there is no hint that help will come from elsewhere to save us from ourselves. The Earth is the only world known, so far, to harbor life. There is nowhere else, at least in the near future, to which our species could migrate. Visit, yes. Settle, not yet. Like it or not, for the moment, the Earth is where we make our stand. It has been said that astronomy is a humbling and character-building experience. There is perhaps no better demonstration of the folly of human conceits than this distant image of our tiny world. To me, it underscores our responsibility to deal more kindly with one another and to preserve and cherish the pale blue dot, the only home we’ve ever known.”

—Carl Sagan, Pale Blue Dot: A Vision of the Human Future in Space, 1997 reprint, pp. xv–xvi

“The King,” a creative short story read by our conversational English class!
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“The Twins” original story created by our conversational English class, narrated by M.
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Just another lazy Friday night reading books together! Or, M becomes a comedienne!
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Humanitarian Day is Every Day!
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We strive to live our lives as though Every Day is  Humanitarian Day for the rest of our lives.   

 

I write this particular blog post as a reminder for our daughter that being born in America to a Burmese American Mother and a Taiwanese Canadian American Father, you are one of the lucky ones, M.  And as such fortunately privileged Americans like you, me and daddy, I believe that we have responsibilities to help improve the lives of  other human beings in need.

Because we,  like so many fortunate others in the world, we’ve won her kiss and gained her love for eternal bliss….. we have FREEDOM.

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A 4th Grader in Year 5. Oh My!
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My dear M,

Back in June,before the summer,  before we went back to the US,  you had to say “goodbye”  to a few of  your friends you’ve known since year 3, 2010.   I knew that  it was not an easy thing for you to do.  Let’s do our best to  keep in touch with them so that someday perhaps you could reunite with them, somewhere in the world?    Perhaps you could meet your friend Azya in Scotland and Da-In in Korea?  That would be really cool, wouldn’t it?  (Adding photos here after or when I locate them!)

And now, another school year has started  and how exciting it is for you my little  M.

Wow!  Can you believe it M?  You’re in 4th grade, year 5!   This year there are 6 girls (including you) and 10 boys totaling to 16 students in your entire 4th grade, year 5.  Last year, was a big class totaling about 23 students. Ms. Carol had her hands full with all of you.

This year,  I hear Mr. Brett gives lots of homework and is rather strict.  But I think you’ll do fine because you had Ms Kat in your first year and she’s taught you well.  As long as I can remember, even when you were tiny in your first Montessori school, we had you doing your homework the minute you got home.  That habit has stuck with you over the years and I’m glad that you are respectful of homework.   Mr. Brett told us that the comprehension avg for kids your age is at score of 80 and that you are at 150.

I also heard that this year’s Maths will be much more advanced and you’ll have to know the times table by heart!  Remember?  I tried to warn you this summer?  :-)   Ms. Carol told me about the 100 squares and I think we’ll have to master that, well, OK, you will need to master that.

Just like the previous years, there will be good days and there will be not so good days!  Right?  That’s just how life goes my sweet girl, M.   I wish you  another year filled with having fun, learning, experiencing and making memories with your friends and teachers!  May they be long-lasting memories and may you continue to develop life long friendships here in Chiang Mai!

I’ll try my best as your Mommy to help record them for you here whenever I can.  If not here, at least here!

 

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Thoughts on Finding Balance, Living Few Regrets
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In 5 short years, we will be 50.    FIVE-OH!

Some days I can grasp that concept a little easier than others.

For the past few weeks and months,  after returning to Texas, and now leaving it again, seeing and reconnecting with friends of many years both in Houston and Arlington/Dallas areas, spending time with family, having experienced a painful and debilitating  illness and injury earlier this year in Thailand, having returned to  Burma all three of us along with my parents, having both of my parents with us in Chiang Mai,  losing a close friend at such a young age unexpectedly and other reminders of how fragile life truly is  — all these months of experiences and memories combined -  have had me constantly re-evaluating my life in one fashion or another.

What I know for certain is that I will not be holding on to any one material thing or item on my death-bed. What  I know for sure is that I want  to have  few regrets and what-if’s on my death-bed.   The fewer the better!

I remember  telling J in one of our deep conversations late at nights back when we were living in Houston in our now rental home that I want to glide into our 50′s without any regrets. Continue reading